There is a person who looks like he is friendly and kind sitting in the subway. And on the other side, there is a person who looks like he doesn’t know what a word kind is and think only for himself. If you just got on the subway and there are only two seats beside these people, who will you sit beside? Well, the answer may differ with personalities but almost everyone will choose the seat next to the person who looks kind.
This is like everyone who communicates in the society. The first appearance is what people think of others and this is the only way. Actually this is the only way to know the person for the first time. But is does the appearance tell who is the person is? Well, just the side of them, yes, but for the whole person, no. If you talk to the person and listen to what he says, you will be surprised. Not all who have a smile in their face have a good personality but who appears when you talk to them. What meets the eye is not all what you can see. Some things, you have to learn from heart and feel them with it. This way, you can know the true meaning and the truth about others.
Seeing is not everything. To understand and get to know a real person is with their words. Even if a child is talking about the truth, do we have to judge them by their figure? Even with the youngest or the form that a person is making must not be the standard. What we have to learn and know is from the words they speak. Have you ever judged a person with the figure he has got? Once you get to know him, you will know that you can’t judge a book by its cover.
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Very interesting example tell us that we could not just judge things only by the first looking. We should have patient to find out the truth under the looking.
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